Just because it’s cold and gray outside, it doesn’t mean you have to feel blue. Or depressed. Or blah.
Many people do feel blah or blue or depressed throughout the winter, however. Fortunately, there are lots of reasons for this — and if you can find the reason(s), you can find the solution.
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Where, oh where, has my vitamin D gone?
Many people are vitamin D deficient all year round, but when the sun goes away during the winter, this gets worse.
Vitamin D deficiency is associated with depression. Many people feel an emotional lift when they bring their vitamin D levels up to normal. I know I did.
Click here for the vitamin D test to ask your doctor or naturopath for.
Winter couch potato syndrome
For some people, any excuse not to exercise is a good excuse.
Whether you go outside for a walk, a run, join a gym, play sports or use a DVD and workout in your TV room exercising is key.
It helps to boost your mood and your self-esteem. Don’t think too much about it — just go for it.
I like to workout as soon as I get up. Before I leave my bedroom, I put my workout clothes on, I go to the kitchen for a quick protein shake and then start exercising. Since there’s no time to think about it, there’s no time to come up with any excuses.
I have other patients who like to go straight to the gym after work. When you make it your routine to go straight from the office to the gym, it’s much easier. If you go home first, the chances that you won’t go back out are pretty high.
Lonliness will not make you happy
When it’s cold and dark or maybe drizzling icy-cold rain, it can be very tempting to just stay in by yourself.
Resist the urge and go outside. Plan a get-together with friends, drop by a friend’s house for a short chat, or visit family. Worse case-scenario, go hang out in a coffee shop or bookstore.
Make sure to plan regular get-togethers with friends in advance.
At the end of that get-together, suggest scheduling the next one so you always have something coming up. I do this with a couple of my friends and it works great — we’ve always got something with each other on the calendar and since it’s the last thing we did at our previous get-together, making plans is almost effortless.
Mr. Sun, Sun, Mr. Golden Sun
If you can, go south. Soak up some sun and you’ll feel better for a while for it. It will give you something to look forward to and you’ll feel great while you’re there.
A nice, sunny locale in the middle of three months of gray and brown is just what your naturopath ordered.
Take a bunch of pictures, put them on your screensaver and let yourself remember how great it felt to be there.
Grief, grieving, grieved
Unresolved grief is aggravated by the above factors. Unresolved grief is grief from your past that has not been properly worked through.
Grief can easily get stuffed into our body and stay there, until we process it in a healthy way.
This is a huge topic and one that I will cover in another newsletter. But know that if you never cry or easily cry (movies, commercials, sad stories etc.), you’ve probably got unresolved grief that needs to be dealt with.
TC